Sunday, September 12, 2021

Week of September 5-11, 2021

Highlights:

Spiritual
Sunday was good as we were able to listen to many shared testimonies and partake of the Sacrament. 

I was the only one able to get an appointment to attend the temple this week. It was a good session and I got the work done for another sister. 

My daily morning foundation of General Conference talk(s), prayer, scripture study and Come Follow Me study continues each day. I completed my seventh time through General Conference listening and began my eighth time. 

I have indexed 13,911 records and reviewed 84,627 records so far this year.

Family

The Wilkins Family
Lots of summer cold sickness at the Wilkins house last week. Adam thus was not permitted to return to work until Thursday. He is really enjoying his new job. Grace had a splendid birthday. She took doughnuts to seminary, ate Panda Express, and enjoyed her favorite salad - mandarin orange/avocado and homemade rolls. She received lots of Harry Potter gifts and attended her school flea market. Tennis is going well and she is really enjoying it. Joshua is doing well and is just the happiest young man! Sam is doing better and is the person who loves to present family home evening lessons. HE makes up songs and takes his responsibility very seriously. Sam also LOVES to write books. 




 Mike and Allison continue to work plus go through the stuff back and forth that come with selling a house. 

The Ethan Rice Family
Ethan, Cameo, Kaylee and Wade plus some of their friends headed to Jellystone Park for Labor Day weekend. They had such a good time!








I spoke with them on Saturday night. All are doing well. Wade gave me a wonderful tour of everything in their house!

The Doran Rice Family
Doran went back to work a little to train the other employee but still is struggling with the healing process. Therapy is going well. He also had some major dental work done on Saturday. Not a fun way to enjoy a weekend. Everyone is good.

Morgan
On Tuesday, Morgan and Cassie took dad on an overnight fishing trip to Woods Canyon Lake. The weather was great and cold at night. He had a good time.















Kayty
Kayty had a good work week and got in some extra overtime. 

The Nathan Rice Family
Nathan, Jessica and the girls returned early from Young. The pollen was crazy and it made Jessica quite sick. Monday morning, Nathan took Dad out dove hunting.





They had a busy week including the first soccer practice for Anna and Ellie. We played Friday night while Mom and Dad did some birthday shopping. On Saturday, Dad went with them up to the Anthem WalMart and got some more tomato cages.





Dad's Garden
Seeds are started, grow lights are on, and my dryer has become a greenhouse of sorts. Citrus is plentiful and we hope it will continue...gotta keep them roof rats away. 

Other highlights
Hot weather this week including some very hot jogs in the morning. 

Worked on finishing baby stocking...at least an hour a day.

Had a good visit with the Target Dollar Spot on Wednesday, though I still say the name Dollar Spot is truly misleading. I found more pumpkins that were so unique. 

Primary Program practice on Saturday. This interferes with our regular trip to Millies Hallmark that grandma and I take, so we will go next week, depending on when I have my car and Loyd, who is in the hospital for tests, is released. 

While I have chosen to keep the family blog mostly free from turmoil from the world outside, I had to stop this morning. Much happened on Thursday, September 9. The person holding the office of President of The United States became a dictator. While I do not believe the words he read come from him (he is very obviously in the later stages of dementia), I do believe the United States of America, our Constitution, and our freedoms are in serious peril. My prayers have not stopped for days, weeks, months, and now years. I just saw this quote run across my screen as I was curling my hair...

"The freedoms I know today may be the freedoms my grandchildren never knew existed."

While it is up to each individual to have the FREEDOM TO CHOOSE what they do and how they do it, I am in a place to also choose. I will not give up on freedom. I will not give up on fighting tyranny. Yesterday was not the end, it was just a step in a process. I will NOT leave a country to my grandchildren devoid of their freedom to choose...what to do...what to see...what to medically do for their bodies...everything. 


Days of continued prayer...continued questions...continued concerns...and then, on the Morning of September 11, 2021, I saw this in my email. It is from the blog called Kate Expectations. Kate is the daughter of a dear couple I grew up in the same ward with. I even babysat Kate's oldest sister and brother a time or two. I have loved her perspective through the years, and it was wonderful to read about her mom, Susan Dana, her grandfather, Joe Dana (who had the most beautiful broadcasting voice) and to think about our great country. I learned of George Washington as I studied history earlier this year. This was not a man who wanted fame or political fortune at all. He loved his country. I remember reading about the moment at Valley Forge and thought of how low he must have felt. How hopeless it seemed. He turned to prayer. So I am sharing this...

House That Jack Built

Good Vibes at Valley Forge

Posted: 10 Sep 2021 07:49 PM PDT

My mother’s side of the family are Danas. This is a heritage, I was taught growing up, that brings with it some notable claims to fame. 

Take my great uncle Danny Herrera, for instance, who invented the margarita (true story). He first concocted it in the late 1940's at Rancho La Gloria, his resort in Mexico, where my mom would visit in the summer as a child. To this day my cousins and I all wish each other a Happy National Margarita Day every February 22nd, although as sober Latter-day Saints most of us have never actually tried one.  

 

Another source of Dana pride is that my grandfather Joe Dana, after whom I and my daughter are named, once fired his gun at an approaching bear who went down on the first shot. Though it was clearly dead, no bullet hole could be found until the taxidermist discovered that it had gone in one ear and out the other. If you don’t believe me, the skin was turned into a rug that has been passed around the family for decades and can currently be found in my sister Jane’s guest room closet. 

 

But the family lore that made me proudest was that this same grandfather was lifelong friends with the great artist Arnold Friberg, and was the inspiration for the physical build of George Washington when he painted his magnum opus, Prayer at Valley Forge. 




The physique of Grandpa Joe in this painting is unmistakable, particularly the unique size and shape of his hands. 

 

The president of Friberg Art once recalled a time that the painting was lying on the floor of a printer’s studio when a security guard passed by. He studied it for some time then said, “You feel the prayer in his hands. He got it.” 

 

I couldn’t agree more. 

 

George Washington is typically portrayed in heroic fashion and rightfully so, looking like the father of our nation that he is. In my textbooks in school I remember he was always shown overlooking a victorious battlefield, or on the back of a charging horse, or proudly presenting the Constitution. 

 

But in Prayer at Valley Forge, he is at his lowest. Frozen, defeated, and no doubt weighed down by the responsibility of leading his equally frozen and defeated troops to safety. Fallen to his knees, in a moment of desperation, he pleads with God for help.

 

Friberg’s Washington looks humble. Prayerful. And by 2021 standards, perhaps a little controversial.  

  

I wonder, what if modern social media scrutiny existed in 1778, and someone hiding in the snow captured this moment and uploaded it to Twitter. What sort of debate would it spark? Could it have hurt his chances of becoming president years later? 

 

Possibly. Prayer certainly didn’t help Mike Pence in matters of public opinion while serving in the White House. Last year, during a meeting of the coronavirus task force, he led the group in prayer. Someone snapped a picture that went viral and triggered a stampede of criticism.

 

“You can’t pray this away,” someone Tweeted.“We are so screwed,” wrote another. Honestly, the general consensus of reactions reminded me of Nacho Libre’s sidekick Esquelito when he said, “I don’t believe in God. I believe in science," which, by the way, was supposed to be funny. Isn't there room to believe in both?

 

I don't think Mike Pence was praying to escape his responsibility in the pandemic any more than George Washington was praying as a strategy to avoid confronting the British. I believe that prayer is a component of our efforts, not an alternative to them.

 

I love the way Pope Francis put this when he said, “You pray for the hungry. Then you feed them. That is how prayer works.” 

 

I think there can be a place in the political sphere for prayer without blurring the lines between church and state, the separation of which is one of our greatest freedoms. Prayer is an incredibly encompassing term. There are limitless possibilities of how a person might pray or to what source, and protections for those who choose not to pray at all. One of the primary tenants of my own faith is the privilege of worshiping according to our own conscience, and allowing others the same - “let them worship how, where or what they may.” 

 

I just wonder though, how prayer went from a natural expression and condolence we offer one another, to an awkward question of whether offense might be caused. Why people on social media are far more likely to send or solicit “thoughts and good vibes” than they are prayer. 

When you Google "sending prayers," in fact, several of the top search results are lists of alternative phrases you can use that omit the word prayer altogether. Because heaven forbid.


Still, in spite of all the noise, I believe that Prayer at Valley Forge is timeless. I don't know what Washington said in that moment of desperation, but the closest comparison of my lifetime was twenty years ago, watching an equally desperate President Bush address the nation of the evening of September 11th.

 

I remember sitting on the couch of my apartment in a dreamlike state, haunted by the images I had seen that day, and only beginning to understand how the world and my perception of it had changed. I couldn't imagine the weight on President Bush's shoulders. No amount of eloquence in his address would have been enough to comfort Americans that night. No call for vengeance or promise to rebuild sufficient.  And so he said - 

 

Today our nation saw evil - the very worst of human nature - and we responded with the best of America.

 

Tonight I ask for your prayers for all those who grieve, for the children whose worlds have been shattered, for all whose sense of safety and security has been threatened. And I pray they will be comforted by a power greater than any of us.” 



Two decades later and more than two centuries after Valley Forge, we are still at times witness to the worst of human nature. And when we are, I'm grateful for a "power greater than any of us," and for the right to say God bless America, and mean it.

 

 

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